The Beauty of Immersion
Santiago Day:
On my way to Andahuaylillas, I wasn’t sure how I was supposed to feel. I was unsure about living in a new place and forming relationships with new people. I never could have imagined how easy it would be to cultivate friendships with strangers on the street and continue to hold conversations with them every day of the week. There is something really cool about viewing life in a different perspective with an alternative mindset. As soon as I got to the small town of Andahuaylillas, I started to see the beauty of being in a new place. From a first-hand point of view, I have been welcomed into a kind and loving community of people as well as culture.
Being immersed in Peruvian society has allowed me to view a culture of unmatched traditions. In my short time here, I have learned there is beauty in stepping out of the comfort of your own culture. For example, I am learning to speak Quechua just by having small conversations with people. I love talking with all the friendly faces in the Plaza (the city center), in the Parish kitchen, and even in the San Pedro Apostol de Andahuaylillas Church. Through these conversations I have learned to say phrases like “khuyakuyki mamay,” or I love you mom.
When we go to Urcos for groceries, I love conversing with the ladies at the tiendas. It was through dancing around the market where I learned “Tusuy,” or dancing in Quechuan. Me asking the ladies what the word dancing meant in their language immediately brought a huge smile to their faces. A simple gesture of interest. When leaving Urcos, I would speak Quechuan and make the taxi driver laugh as he would also claim to be “El Ultimo Inca,” or the last Inca. Showing interest in learning and extending oneself to growth, even by picking up a few phrases in a native dialect, has helped me form meaningful connections and further immerse myself in this beautiful culture.
Extending myself to develop my Quechuan skills has brought a lot of joy to the locals, but it has also allowed me to form a relationship with one of the kindest women I may possibly ever meet. My favorite phrase of all is “wawakaparish,” or baby tantrum and this was taught by the most caring woman ever, Julia. Julia is one of the women in the parish that works as a cook for one of The Project’s initiatives, serving meals to over 150 people. After my day working at the high school, I head over to help her with the meal program. She jokes around with us, laughs when we dance, and feeds us almost every day with lunch. I have found our relationship has grown through the conversations we share about words in Quechuan and think it is safe to say we both enjoy these shared interactions. I don’t think our relationship would be the same without a shared willingness to teach and learn.
Comments
Post a Comment